Encouraging Family Reformation

The biblical institutions of church and family in America are in need of reformation. Some say that we are in the period of greatest apostasy in 500 years. Less than one-half of one percent of adults ages 18 to 23 years have a biblical worldview. Only one-third of Christian parents say their religious faith is one of the most important influences on their parenting and only 27% of Protestant parents are very familiar with what the Bible has to say about parenting. It is clear that many Christian parents are no longer discipling their children in the faith. The result---SBC’s Council on Family Life reported that roughly 88 percent of evangelical children are leaving the church shortly after they graduate from high school. The problem is not only with the church and its program-oriented, marketing-driven growth philosophy, but also with parents, who have abdicated their role and responsibility in teaching, discipling, and nurturing their children in multigenerational faithfulness. The result is that the secular post-Christian culture has claimed the children and youth of America. When the foundations are being destroyed, what can the righteous do? (Psalm 11:3). We are encouraged by the fact that God is sovereign, Jesus Christ is Lord and His kingdom is forever. As we believe God's covenantal promise, our opportunity is great in working toward reformation of the family, the church, and the nations.

This blog links to a wide variety of writings on biblical issues regarding the family, biblical roles and relationships in the family, the church, education, and biblical worldview including ethics, apologetics, history, politics, and culture. The blog was created to encourage biblical family reformation through development of a clear family vision of multigenerational faithfulness. Our duties as parents include sharing the gospel with our children, discipling them in the faith (Deut 6:7), raising them in the fear, nuture, and admonition of the Lord (Prov 9:10; Eph 6:4), cultivating in them a biblical worldview (2 Cor 10:5), and providing them with the necessary tools to recognize and engage an increasingly humanistic, post-Christian culture while glorifying God.

April 27, 2009

The Bible and Self-Defense

Rev. Brian M. Abshire

The increasing paganization of America has led to an epidemic of violence as rebellious men act consistently with their godless natures. Our legal system, once based on Biblical principles has now become thoroughly humanistic and no longer acts as a deterrent against crime. Americans are rightly fearful of becoming the victims of assault, robbery, rape and murder as the media constantly informs us of some latest horrendous tragedy befalling some poor unfortunate individual. Statistics show that the more one watches television, the more one fears being the victim of a violent crime and thus our PERCEPTION of the danger can be actually quite different from the reality of the danger. Never-the-less, the fear is real, the crimes are real and that fear influences every aspect of our lives.

In a large church in Los Angeles where I served as an intern for year, an elder mentioned at a home group meeting that one out of every ten women was raped in our community every year (and this was in a “nice” suburb). I questioned that statistic until two of the twenty women present admitted that they had been the victims of violent sexual assault in the parking lot of a nearby mall; the same mall my wife and I went to every Saturday!

The danger is there, but the proper Christian response is sometimes more difficult to discern. Should we just trust God and go about our lives as some suggest? Should we buy a gun? But if we do, are we not putting our children in danger? What about all those studies that show that having a gun in the house is MORE likely to lead to someone be murdered in that home? Can Christians lawfully resist evil with violence, even taking another person’s life if necessary to protect their own, or their families?

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