Encouraging Family Reformation

The biblical institutions of church and family in America are in need of reformation. Some say that we are in the period of greatest apostasy in 500 years. Less than one-half of one percent of adults ages 18 to 23 years have a biblical worldview. Only one-third of Christian parents say their religious faith is one of the most important influences on their parenting and only 27% of Protestant parents are very familiar with what the Bible has to say about parenting. It is clear that many Christian parents are no longer discipling their children in the faith. The result---SBC’s Council on Family Life reported that roughly 88 percent of evangelical children are leaving the church shortly after they graduate from high school. The problem is not only with the church and its program-oriented, marketing-driven growth philosophy, but also with parents, who have abdicated their role and responsibility in teaching, discipling, and nurturing their children in multigenerational faithfulness. The result is that the secular post-Christian culture has claimed the children and youth of America. When the foundations are being destroyed, what can the righteous do? (Psalm 11:3). We are encouraged by the fact that God is sovereign, Jesus Christ is Lord and His kingdom is forever. As we believe God's covenantal promise, our opportunity is great in working toward reformation of the family, the church, and the nations.

This blog links to a wide variety of writings on biblical issues regarding the family, biblical roles and relationships in the family, the church, education, and biblical worldview including ethics, apologetics, history, politics, and culture. The blog was created to encourage biblical family reformation through development of a clear family vision of multigenerational faithfulness. Our duties as parents include sharing the gospel with our children, discipling them in the faith (Deut 6:7), raising them in the fear, nuture, and admonition of the Lord (Prov 9:10; Eph 6:4), cultivating in them a biblical worldview (2 Cor 10:5), and providing them with the necessary tools to recognize and engage an increasingly humanistic, post-Christian culture while glorifying God.

November 30, 2009

The Model Child

William Smith, Westminster Presbyterian Church, Hunstville, AL


When the first of our five sons was born, we decided that he would be a model child. We would not make the countless mistakes our own parents had made, for to rear a model child we would need to be model parents. Calvin, of course, would not have any weaknesses of personality or behaviour, for we would apply the strict discipline necessary to avoid such things developing. It goes beyond saying that he would be quite handsome, very smart, and flawlessly mannered. One day the model male would marry the model female with the model parents smiling. He would go on to success and money, become an elder in the church, and, naturally, produce model children.


By the time we realized it was not going to work, we were well on our way to producing a neurotic child. As is obvious to you, when Philip and Joel came along, we had long given up on any attempt to produce model children I want us to consider a Model Child. We must ever remember His absolute uniqueness, but at the same time we can find in His childhood a model to instruct us as parents and educators. I speak of the Lord Jesus Christ.


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